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Oh man, I’ve had a few of those experiences as well, though I don’t think I could ever tell the story as well as you do.

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Oh my. I had almost exactly that experience with my brother elder by 8 years. We were gone maybe 3 hours. I throw that look on Mom’s face. It stays with me today.

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Yikes. Lost 2 of the 3 boys and they were playing in the house. But your story brings it all back, like it was yesterday. My heart is thumping

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💓

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You hit the nail on the head with your description. I have felt that debilitating panic, inability to breathe, and it is bar none the absolute worst I've ever felt.

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Yes, agree--the worst. More than once I have felt this. It must take years off our lives. 🤦‍♀️

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Oh yes, I agree. When I finally found my daughter (in the house) I was not much more than a puddle on the floor.

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You too?! In the house? Oh my goodness.

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Shell, not only did you pick the perfect photo for your piece, but you chose words and a narrative that had me, literally, breathless as I read. I have been on both sides of the horror you describe: the lost child and the parent who, for terror-stricken moments, thought I lost my oldest daughter. You have a knack with words and phrases. I could not believe my heart rate could get so high reading a sub stack piece. Genius.

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That's what happens when we have experienced something similar, right? It awakens that feeling and our heart rate increases. That's what I love about reading & writing and finding people who can relate! 💓

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"And the girls just looked at me like I had lost my mind." THAT'S my favorite part - my girls have been looking at me like that for forty-five years! It never gets old, and they will never grow up! Great piece Shell!

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Thank you so much! 😊

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